Humans were born to communicate needs, distress and joy. They cannot communicate if there is a blockage of verbal and emotional communication. That communication comes out in terms of manipulative behaviour or psycho-physiological malfunction. Unmet needs come out as demands or insistence about rights. If something or someone blocks the expression of a child's love and joy, in later life he tends to be selfish and melancholic. Unless an individual in dealing with the conflicts engendered by confusion and trauma can understand and significantly change their personal and interpersonal history, tragedy must repeat. They will remain traumatised and isolated from other people and from God. If all tragedy repeat, then there is no hope for humanity.,, The Hope Alive group counseling technique is aimed at ensuring that tragedy does not repeat. By helping individuals identify their damages by childhood mistreatment and pregnancy loss, and other tragedies. The process of acknowledging death and allowing for a rebirth through the alternative plan is an integral part of this counseling program. It is an essential component of the way God uses the original blueprint to recreate the person from the inside.